Dreams of Spanking is radical in that it provides a variety of gender orientations, with people of all genders in both dominant and submissive roles. For me, this is an essential part of shooting BDSM porn in a feminist way-ensuring that there aren’t any expectations that anyone will perform a certain power role on the basis of their gender. But apparently, this also meant we didn’t conform to the standards of acceptability that see submissive women as natural and okay, and submissive men as subversive and obscene; and I believe that this was definitely a factor in why my site was singled out.