SCHTICK A POLE IN IT, NYC’s best and only comedy and pole dancing show, has announced new performance dates (11/27/2021 – 1/22/2022) for an open-ended run at Drom (85 Avenue A) in the East Village.

Remember, you have to ask a good (clear, well-reasoned) question to get the same kind of answer back. And that when “they” start counting, you should well start questioning. And that all surveys are biased in some way.

You don’t have to have Netflix or even to have watched Dave Chappelle’s new comedy special (and he claims his last of its kind for Netflix) “The Closer” to know that Mr. Chappelle is once again under a barrage of criticism for his comments about transgender folks. There has even been a Netflix employee walkout over the show.

“Camp Morningwood” is a Facebook private group. All members are carefully screened to ensure that they are truly sellers and buyers; we come together for a common interest, and that is pornography. The sellers create a menu describing what they offer and are self-employed, creating and operating their own business. The seller then makes a social media-friendly post to the group thread. Interested buyers inbox the sellers, and then the “magic” happens.

There are games, and then there are games. Mr. Hands (no, not his real name) is a self-proclaimed 32-year-old “newsletter enthusiast,” happily married to a lovely woman, and he just happens to write about smutty video games as a hobby. If you flick your cursor over to Naughty List News (substack.com), you will see what he writes about. 

I spoke to Bruce Friedman, CEO of Adult Site Broker. His company was established in 2011 to help buyers and sellers of adult websites, affiliate programs, and entire companies with effortless transactions of posting, buying, and selling adult websites. For me personally, as well as for what I usually offer in THE SEX FILES, it’s great to get a look-see into the business side of the adult industry and have a good jaw about what Bruce is into presentl

Well, at RICK’S CABARET, the summertime allows patrons to enjoy the upscale gentlemen’s club one-of-a-kind roof deck.

So, here’s a little something I just received from our friends at The Erotic Heritage Museum, that mixes something coming from NYC […]

I wanted to hip you all to the passing of a great man, a champion of human sexuality, Dave Lampert, creator of the Sybian sex machine. One of Howard Stern’s ”go-to” devices, unparalleled in the world of self-sexual pleasure, creating his oh-so-unique machine in 1987, adding to the line with his Venus for Men eleven years later, Dave leaves a family-run business. He died this week at the age of 90.

As of the past year, though, I have been wondering about where/when and how kinksters, at the local, national, and even global level, are going to get back to their naughtiness (if they will at all), so I checked in with some folks I knew who would have a good perspective on the future of kink groups, players, and BDSM culture in general.