“We miss basic information. We are not ever really educated all that well about hormone changes, our bodies in general and so much more of what happens when we start to become intimate.

Harness-free play is appealing to many people because it allows for a more natural experience. It may also bring some spontaneity to play for people who find it cumbersome to adjust their harnesses.

Last week I happened to attend a couple of XBIZ seminars, learning about what has been in happening in the world of retail adult pleasure products.

Biird is a women-led pleasure positive brand based out of Rotterdam, The Netherlands. Having launched multiple award-winning products, the company continues to develop products that are easily approachable, look great, and feel incredible.

All good art is relatable to a broad human experience. This is why it touches so many and lasts so long. But not every artist’s story of creation relates. At that time, the Anne Rice/Anne Rampling interplay related to me personally and warmed my cockles. 

These are just a few lists for you to chew over and enjoy. There are plenty more ‘Best Of’s all over the web, in magazines, and probably in the naughty little noggin’ of your bestie. Enjoy.

 SCHTICK A POLE IN IT, NYC’s best and only comedy and pole dancing show, has announced new performance dates (11/27/2021 – 1/22/2022) for an open-ended run at Drom (85 Avenue A) in the East Village.

Remember, you have to ask a good (clear, well-reasoned) question to get the same kind of answer back. And that when “they” start counting, you should well start questioning. And that all surveys are biased in some way.

You don’t have to have Netflix or even to have watched Dave Chappelle’s new comedy special (and he claims his last of its kind for Netflix) “The Closer” to know that Mr. Chappelle is once again under a barrage of criticism for his comments about transgender folks. There has even been a Netflix employee walkout over the show.

“Camp Morningwood” is a Facebook private group. All members are carefully screened to ensure that they are truly sellers and buyers; we come together for a common interest, and that is pornography. The sellers create a menu describing what they offer and are self-employed, creating and operating their own business. The seller then makes a social media-friendly post to the group thread. Interested buyers inbox the sellers, and then the “magic” happens.